Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Stained Glass


A few years ago I was working at Herrin Maytag on the dryer line with a good friend. We were talking about God and who we are in relation to Him.
This was, by the way, typical of the type of conversations we’d have. 
Those of you who know me know that I'm an identity guy. It’s about who the Bible says we are in Christ Jesus. 
I’ll post some random thoughts on that later.
This conversation was a little different. This had more to do with our place in the body of Christ. 

There are 2 passages that stand out to me;

Romans 12:4-5 For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function,  so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another
    Prince Of Peace Akiane (puzzle overlay by me)
1 Corinthians 12:27 Now you are the body of Christ, and members individually.


Being an effective part of the body of Christ means that you pursue a relationship with Jesus Christ. 
Each of us has a part to play as part of the body and we were created with just the right tools to be that part. Each is equally important and none are disposable. 
Deciding that your roll isn't important means the body has a missing part. It’s like a puzzle with a missing piece. No matter how beautiful the puzzle picture, with even 1 piece missing it is incomplete.



OK, back to the conversation.
My friend said “you know Daniel J., we’re like pieces of stained glass.”
Then he just stood there and smiled. At that moment, God put this picture in my head of a stained glass window with the sun shining through it! Then over the next few moments He explained what it all meant. God’s perfectly pure white light has always shone brightly with us or without us. Because of His great love for us he makes his light beautiful by shining it through us.

Elizabeth Goudge



Each of us is like a piece of stained glass. Created similar, yet vastly different!! (Psalm 139:14)
Some are blue, green, red, yellow or any other color imaginable. Gods pure light hits us and explodes into a rainbow of rich vibrant color that takes your breath away! 

Each of us is flawed. (Romans 3:23) Irregular, cracked and even broken pieces are used. 





When the Master Craftsman
(John 15:1-8) has an odd shaped space to fill, He may even decide to take you and break you into just the right piece He wants!

None are colorless either because we’re stained!! 

But look what a loving master craftsman can do with a bunch of broken pieces of broken, colored glass!!!

You are not allowed to think that you have no value!(Romans 5:8)Nor are you allowed to view anyone else as less valuable than you.
(Matthew 23:11)

I've not looked at a stained glass window the same since!! 

By the way, I’m the red one!!





Monday, March 25, 2013

Need Prayer?

The "Need Prayer?" Booth
Benton, IL

Last summer I embarked on a great adventure called the "Need Prayer? booth. It's changed the way I view Christianity. Let me start from the beginning...
A couple of years ago I was joined to a private Facebook group and among the people posting there was a man named Todd Volker. Todd is from California and was posting pics of these prayer tents. Curious, I looked them over and read the descriptions with the photos. Well, I was riveted by stories of salvation, deliverance, healing, encouragement and so much more! I found myself back there time and time again checking for new reports...I didn't have to wait long!!
When a person humbles themselves to the point that they will approach a total stranger and reveal the thing in their life that needs prayer the most, the stage is set for the Holy Spirit to move in POWER!
I knew I was going to have to do a booth myself.

The "Need Prayer?" booth is a wonderful tool. Here's how it works. 
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How to do a “Need Prayer?” Booth

What is a Prayer Booth?
A Prayer Booth is a public offer of free prayer to anyone in need. It is staffed by a few people from local Christian churches, and is usually located on the street or in a community area. It is an effective means of outreach in the public arena whereby believers can demonstrate love and care for the community. In our setting we put up banners that say “Need Prayer?” on an EZ-up type portable shelter in various locations in the city, such as empty lots on busy streets, farmer's markets and swap meets. Drivers or passers-by stop and ask for prayer.Our goal is that people will experience the love and power of God as we pray for them. It is our experience that they do!

The Purpose of this guide

We want to provide you with the information and tools you need to start a Prayer Booth ministry in your own town or city. We want you to be successful from the start, learning from our victories, as well as our mistakes. We are confident that if you will take the step to offer prayer out in the community, you will see God bless people in tremendous ways, and witness firsthand His Kingdom breaking into this present age.

What you need
  1. A heart to reach out into the community. You will be praying for some people who would never enter a church to get prayer, so it will take some of us out of our comfort zone. This is where Jesus did most of His ministry, so let’s go where He would go.
  2. A location. You have two main options: Street locations (free), or marketplace booths (a weekly fee).
    1. Street Locations: If you have church members who own a business locally where there is parking, that might be a place to start. You will need good visibility to traffic for your signs or banners, and a place for cars to pull in and park. Sometimes you can find an empty lot on a busy street to locate your booth. You might be able to obtain permission if you can contact the owner, but often it is easier to just try it out and see if anyone objects (they seldom do, unless it is causing traffic issues). Locations near hospitals are especially good, as you will get some action from the patients and family members.
    2. Marketplace Booths: You can also do a Prayer Booth at swap meets, downtown “open markets,” as well as other public events like farmer’s markets. Check with local officials for rules and costs. While the disadvantage is the cost of the marketplace, the advantage is that you will have more exposure to foot traffic, and will likely get to pray for many more people. The best locations are those where you can set up weekly, as consistency in key (you will even get to pray for the other vendors and staff as you build relationships).
  3. Signs or Banners. We use “Need Prayer?” and it seems to work well for us to communicate what we are doing. Some other ideas might be “Free Prayer” or “Get Prayer Here.” Keep it simple and clear. I don’t recommend that you put the name of your church or ministry on the banner. We use a “A” frame “Sempo” sign on the sidewalk in addition to three 2’x8’ banners hanging from a EZ-up that all simply say “Need Prayer?” It is critical to have good “signage,” and this is the most costly part of the Prayer Booth start-up. (We started out cheap with hand-made signs, but found that the professional banners will last for years and look much better). The E-Z up is necessary not only for sign hanging, but to shelter you in sun and rain!
  4. Some folding chairs. Get at least four, preferably with a padded seat (you will be sitting for a while).
  5. People to pray (and train). You want to recruit people who want to pray for others in the community, or are willing to learn. You don’t need an army, but you do want a few like-minded people who will go with you. (More on this later under "Co-Op")
  6. A journal to record the prayer exchanges (more on this later).
Guidelines (do’s and don’ts)
  1. We are offering (advertising) prayer, so that is what we should do with people. Many who stop for prayer are in crisis, and they are being vulnerable. There is nothing worse that the old “bait and switch,” so we don’t want to use this for any other purpose than our primary objective - prayer. By this we mean that we don’t preach at people when they come, and we don’t see this as an opportunity to recruit them to come to our church. Our goal is that people will experience the love of God when we interact with them.We ask them what they need prayer for and then we pray. If they ask about our church later and want more information we might give them a card (if they are not in a church currently), or if they seem ready to make a decision to follow Christ we would offer to lead them in a prayer of commitment, but we let them indicate their interest. We never push people or pressure them – prayer is the main thing we are about, and we trust that God will reveal Himself through the prayer exchange. We want people to feel loved and accepted. After that, we try follow the leading of the Holy Spirit.
  2. Some people want to know who you are and what this is about before they let you pray for them. We usually say something like “We are Christians from (fill in the blank) Church here in town and we are here offering free prayer to anyone in need.” We will then introduce ourselves by name and ask the person’s name. We then would ask “how can we pray for you today?” or “what would you like prayer for?” As they are explaining their story, we are listening to them at the same time we are listening to God. Some people will want to tell you their life story, but you only need a place to start. You want to spend more time praying than talking (with most people you have a 3 to 10 minute window), so get into prayer by saying something like, “OK (say their name), let’s go ahead and pray now – Father, I thank you for (say their name) and for bringing them here for prayer today…”
  3. We usually don’t lay hands on the people we pray for because we want to be sensitive to how they feel about being prayed for out in public. One exception to this might be if you are praying for physical healing, and then you should ask permission first. We train our prayer people to pray with their eyes open so they can observe any response the recipient may have and to see “what the Father is doing.” Most prayers last only a minute or two. We then ask for some feedback from the person being prayed for, such as “what were you experiencing as we were praying?” This helps up evaluate what was happening and may focus us on a new direction of prayer. A decision may need to be made at this point if additional prayer is to be offered. If so, this second round of prayer should be brief. We generally follow the Five Step Healing Model.
  4. We let the person know when they can receive prayer again or give a report of an answer (see section on consistency).
Guidelines for the Marketplace

While the street corner or parking lot "Need Prayer?" Booth has the advantage of people coming up specifically for prayer, at the marketplace many are walking by and wondering what this booth is all about. There is a need to engage people as they stop and look, or even slow down as they stroll by. (Some will come right in and ask for prayer, but many won't). It is as good practice to stand at the edge of the booth and say hello to these people, and begin a conversation. An easy way to do this is to say "Hi, my name is (fill in the blank). What is your name? We are Christians from (local church name) and we are offering free prayer to anyone who might need it. Is there anything we can pray for you about?" At this point about 80% of the people will say something like, "No thanks, I'm OK." At this point we have found the key phrase is to say "OK, how about a blessing? Would it be alright if I just prayed a blessing?" At this point most (again about 80%) will say "OK."  There is something about offering a "blessing" that allows you to pray for most people! At this point we go into our prayer that they would experience the love of God right there in the market place. If they said yes to the prayer and gave a request we pray that too.

The importance of consistency

One of the most critical elements of doing a prayer booth in the community is to do it on a consistent basis. You might have some success doing a one time event, but the real fruit from this ministry is based on being present in the same place at the same time on a regular schedule. We find that a weekly schedule works well, as people remember that you are at a certain location on a specific day of the week. People will see you as a regular presence in the community, and that commitment will communicate your earnestness to be a blessing to that community. We have had countless people remark that they had driven past the prayer booth several times on that day of the week (some for months before stopping), and knew they had to stop this time to get prayer. God has been knocking on there heart every time they have gone past. We also see return “customers,” as people come back on future weeks or months to report what God has done or to receive more prayer. The only way that will happen is if you are at the same location at the same time in the future.

Prayer Exchange Journal

We use a simple journal to record the date and place of the prayer, the name of the person prayed for, and a brief summary of what was requested and prayed, along with any results. This serves several purposes, the most important being that if the person returns at a later date you can see what was prayed (and a reminder of their name!). This also communicates care to the individual, as there is a record of their last visit.

Doing a Co-Op

Some groups or individuals find it difficult to commit to being at the booth every week. Because weekly consistency is so important, we have found that one way to maintain this is to Co-Op with other groups or churches. We have one booth that we rotate in four different small groups within our church (home groups, bible studies, singles ministry, etc…) once a month. That way they get to participate in the outreach, but only have to commit to a monthly time slot. We also do another booth at a street fair where we rotate in different churches each month. Each church sends 3 to 4 people on their assigned month (they can rotate in 3 to 4 people every 90 minutes if they have more that want to get involved). We train each group as they come in the first time so that we have continuity in our ethos (loving people, not pushing, praying that they will experience the love and power of Jesus, etc…). This is a great way to build unity among the churches in a city as we share the privilege of blessing those who God sends us in the streets.

Going fishing

When people ask about coming out to pray for people at the prayer booth, we always tell them to be prepared to wait (Especially on the road side venues). The best analogy is that of going fishing. You usually don’t go fishing for 30 minutes. You spent at least part of a day on a fishing trip! We set up the tent and put out the signs, and then we wait for God to draw the people in for prayer. In a 3 hour session we average between 2 to 10 prayer exchanges at the road side and at times you may wait for over an hour before you get someone. (At the marketplace you will tend to get many more). Be prepared to spend some time with “a line in the water” and enjoy the experience. Some days you get a few bites, and some you get many. And every once in a while you get to bring in a whopper! (Salvation, major healing, deliverance, etc…).

Sample Prayer

We try and tailor the prayer for the individual based on need and spiritual condition (trying to determine that in a one minute interview is a challenge), yet there are elements of the prayer that remain consistent regardless of who we are praying for. These elements are:

1. The love of God for that person.
2. The call of God for them to live in that love.
3. A request that they experience God’s presence in that very moment.

If we were praying for Sandra with the request for a job, the prayer might go like this:

“Heavenly Father, I thank you for bringing Sandra to the prayer booth today, and giving her the courage to stop and let some people prayer for her. Lord, we ask that you would provide the right job for Sandra and to open a door that no one can shut. I thank you that you care for her so much, and that she is your beloved daughter, whom you love. I ask that she would experience your love and power right now in this place. Give her a greater revelation of your purpose for her life, and let her know you are for her and with her always. I pray this in Jesus name, Amen.”

Note – If we have a team ( 2 to 3 is recommended), each can take a turn praying, but we are conscience of keeping it brief. We pray God’s love and power for them regardless of whether they have indicated that they are a follower of Jesus or not. We are dependant on the Holy Spirit to draw them to get prayer, and we are also dependant on Him to reveal the love of the Father.

The follow-up question

This step is critical, and should not be skipped if at all possible! Ask this or a similar question:

“What were you experiencing while we were praying for you?”

This gives them a chance to put into words the work of the Holy Spirit in that short time we prayed for them (they might not even recognize this as the Holy Spirit!). You will often be surprised by what they report! It can range from simple statements like “I felt peace,” or “it was nice,” to more profound responses like “I felt tremendous heat on my body,” or “It felt like God was here!” Some who have not been followers of Jesus have said things like “I felt God say to me that I need to start listening to Him,” or “Something happened inside me today that I’ve never felt before – I don’t know what it is.

This feedback gives us an insight into what God has been doing in the prayer exchange. We need to be gentle at this point and not be too pushy. As we are led by the Spirit we can lead them to the next step with God (salvation, further healing, referral to a church if they don’t already have one, etc…). This is all done without putting any guilt or “you need to do this” being communicated. They must be willing, and cannot be pushed or coerced.

We also invite them to come back in the future (the importance of consistency) to report what God has been doing in their lives, or to get more prayer. They will often bring friends or family members in the weeks to come. This return serves to not only encourage us a pray-ers, but gives the recipients the opportunity to exercise the gift of thankfulness and gratitude.

Physical Healing

God wants to demonstrate his love and power through healing the sick. We have learned as we have prayed for more and more people to ask them if they have any physical or medical issues that we can pray for. Even if they have come to ask for some other prayer (a job, a crisis, or even to pray that their car pass the smog check!), we often ask if we can pray for any physical healing. We ask, “Do you have any health concerns or medical problems we can pray for?” This seems to be even more effective with those who are not yet following Jesus. A short, specific prayer for healing can often result in tremendous results. It just seems that there is a great anointing for healing on the streets! We have lately seen cancer healed, severe arthritis removed, and several back injuries fully restored, and that is just the tip of the iceberg. Ask people who come in if you can pray for physical healing (even if you don’t feel gifted in this area), and you will be surprised with what God wants to do. Go for it!

Summary

Prayer Booth is a simple, yet profound way to do an outreach in your community. It is one of the many creative ways that God is giving the church to bring His love and power into the streets and the marketplace. Imagine the possibility of seeing hundreds of “Need Prayer?” booths in cities and towns across the nation and all over the world! What might God do if we follow Him by offering simple yet powerful prayer in this way? Is God calling you to take a risk and do this too? We can say with confidence that if you persevere you will see the Kingdom of God break in with love and power, as lives are changed, healed, and set free. In the famous line from The Water Boy, “You can do it!”

Contact Us

If you are doing a prayer booth, or are thinking of starting one up, please let us know! We would love to hear what God is doing, and would be encouraged to hear that you looked at this guide (hopefully it helped). If you have questions or comments as well, please drop us a line.

Visit our Facebook Page at http://www.facebook.com/NeedPrayerBooth

Or type “need prayer booth” in the search bar on your Facebook page.

We post our current schedule, give praise reports of answered prayer, and list testimonies of how God has healed, saved and set people free. If you haven’t already, check it out and “Like” the page so that others my see this ministry and catch the vision to do it in other cities around the country and across the globe.

This training, plus much more cool stuff can be found on www.RadicalMiddle.net

Here are some of the pics from other booths around the world!
Benton, IL

Gladiator Challenge MMA event at Soboba Casino.


Hawkesbury Valley Vineyard Church at Richmond in North Western Sydney, Australia

The Oasis Church in Pasadena, Ca just started at Victory Park Farmer's Market on Saturdays for 8:30am to 12:30pm. 

San Bernardino, CA












Friday, March 15, 2013

Customer Service


More often than not, customer service seems to be a lost art. Not so much with the local Mom and Pop type places. They still know what it takes to keep a loyal customer.

Seldom are the days when you can walk in to a store and be greeted by someone who's glad to see you, even if they're only pretending. Savor the flavor when it does.
Not true in all cases but for a vast majority of stores, this is true.

Remember when employees put in the time to get to know the products? I don't think I've ever gone into Wal Mart,  K Mart, Target... etc. and had a "knowledgeable" person help me select the item that's right for me. But, I don't think I've ever expected to either.
Best Buy does well with this. I've heard that Nordstrom is legendary for their customer service but I've not been to one...yet.
One of the things I really dislike in business is the de-valuing of people. Convenience is a poor substitute for customer service.
All to often, I'll go into a place and feel like I am here for THEM!
In my restaurant, I ALWAYS appreciated the fact that my customers could have easily chosen someplace closer and more convenient but here they sit. I was here for them not the other way around.

I just wanted to tell you about my experience with 1 particular company.



A few years ago I wanted to order some guitar stands.
I knew I wasn't wanting to spend a lot so I shopped around ordered from Sweetwater.
I'd never done business with them because I haven't really needed to, but, I have several friend who swear by them so I gave them a try.

Now, I need to tell you what was happening at the time.
Tammy and I owned Rugged Cross BBQ. A little BBQ joint in West Frankfort, IL.
We had cashed in our 401k's to open the restaurant and it wasn't going well. We had been talking about just closing the doors. It was a very difficult time. I had taken a guitar and amp there and would sit and play so I wouldn't go crazy inside that empty dining room.
The day my order was delivered was a really hard day. I'd only had 1 or 2 customers all day and I was very depressed and really taking it personally.
My stands were in boxes which were packed inside a larger box to keep them together.
I unpacked and was walking the bigger box out to the dumpster and I heard something rattle. When I looked inside there was a handful of candy!!

This is gonna sound silly but I was so full of despair at the time and seeing something so simple...so...insignificant as...candy...became overwhelming! I honestly had tears in my eyes.
Someone had done something nice for me! Right when I needed it most!!
The next day a man from Sweetwater called just to make sure everything arrived OK and If I needed anything else just give him a call. I told him about the candy and what it meant to me!
He was probably thinking "Dude!! seriously man-up! it's only candy!!" We had a very nice conversation that really had nothing to do with anything concerning my order and he never tried to sell me anything else.
I felt like he cared about me the "person" not just me the "customer." They valued me and my business.

So fast-forward to last week.
I also do cooking videos on You Tube and would like to record my own music to use for them but I'd found a great source for royalty-free music. My source went away last month so I have no real choice. My mixer broke last year and I'd never gotten a new one.
I ordered an Alesis MultiMix 8 USB mixer. Great price great brand!! However, I got a call the next day from a young man from Sweetwater saying it was back-ordered. I switched and bought the one he suggested. It's a Yamaha MW10c and it was in stock.
It arrived today!!! This is PERFECT!!! Exactly what I needed!!









Oh yea...do you see it?!!


Sweetwater, You're a class act. Thanks!!





Friday, March 1, 2013

A story about my Dad

Loren and Sharon Parkhill
my Mom and Dad


I was adopted at birth by the most wonderful people you would ever want to know. They were Christians. The real ones who walked their faith every day.

In this post I wanted to share one of many stories about my hero.
I called him my dad.






I was probably in grade school, 4th or 5th grade maybe. Pop said "Danny Joe, get your shoes on and go with me" so on went the shoes and out the door we went. We got in the pickup truck and drove for what seemed like a really long time. I was really glad that dad and I got to spend the day together.
That wasn't at all unusual, see, we were a close family.

Driving down a country road Pop pulls into a driveway. There didn't seem to be anyone home but dad got some axes and chainsaws out of the back of the truck and walked around to the back yard. There, in the middle of the yard was a tree that had been blown down in a storm.
Pop said "come on Danny Joe, lets cut it up" so off we went!
He used the chainsaw and as he would cut, I would stack. I was on top of the world. I love being around my dad. We would take breaks and he would drink coffee and I drank water from the jug in the truck.

Pop like to work and he enjoyed doing things for other people. He was a coal miner and each summer , it seemed, the union would go on strike. While they were striking, Pop worked on a farm. He would take me  so I could ride in the cab of the tractor with him. I had really bad allergies so I would only ride until my eyes were so swollen I couldn't see very well, then Pop would call the farmer on the CB and have my mom come and take me home! I didn't care! Mom and Dad always made my sister and I priorities. We were important to them.

As we were finishing up the tree, I noticed Pop got very quiet and didn't smile much, like he had a lot on his mind.
We quietly finished and loaded the truck and left the wood, split and neatly stacked.
He was quiet most of the way home. Not mad, just quiet.

I asked who's house we had been to. He told me that it was the home of a man he worked with. The man had told him that he had a tree blown down in the back yard that needed to be cut down. He told me that he just decided to come over here and take care of it for him. I asked if the man knew we were going to do it. Pop smiled and said nope, this will be our little secret. He said "a few days ago his 2 sons were on their way home from college and were killed in a car accident." My dad said through his own tears " He is away burying his sons" "I love you very much Danny Joe" "I love you too pop."
 We drove the rest of the way home quietly.

Dad always knew instinctively how to love people. He never expected anything in return.
That day he did get something in return. A deeper love and respect from his son.
Dad went home to Jesus a few years ago and I really miss him.

Love you Pop!
Danny